When it comes to dating, I’ve found that its not like choosing an answer to a multiple choice question, where there is a correct answer even before you put down your answer. There is no such thing as a pre-set answer for dating.
Its great to imagine that there is a right answer out there. And that the scenario “should I choose to date person A or person B” had a correct answer somewhere out there.
However, when it comes to dating, the choice that you make gradually becomes the right answer if you work on it and put in the effort for it… at least that’s what I’ve been told to believe?
So if the cold reality is that there is no “right” answer when you’re choosing who to date or whether or not to date at all… then how do we go about making decisions!?
If there are no right answers, then what are we choosing exactly!?
What is the basis for it? What’s the reasoning? And most importantly, what’s the purpose?